JUST A MINUTE : LIFE RIGHT NOW



Life lately could easily be summed up as “what the hell were we thinking having another baby?!?!?!?!”

Ok, not really, but in preparing for Human #2 I have had my fair share of freak-outs. While many friends with multiples have assured me that you do manage (disclaimer: no one has actually given specifics on how exactly you manage), I still can’t help the occasional panic. We’ve got just a few days to until our new little bundle of love arrives, and after 9 months of preparing, I almost feel ready. Almost.

Freak-outs aside, here are a few more things I’ve been up to lately:

CHOOSING MUST
Have you read The Crossroads Between Should and Must yet? If you find yourself in an internal struggle between the desire to achieve your goals and the obligations of daily life, this book is for you. You can buy the paperback here or download the free pdf here. It has changed the way I look at my wants and needs. Should is what everyone expects of us, must is the person calling from deep within; the one we often suppress or ignore. Go read it.

Fanta floats in whiskey glasses
WELCOMING SUMMER
Summer is slowly starting to show her sweaty face in Cape Town. While there have been a few lovely warm days, I am so happy that they have been spaced between one or two cloudy, cooler days. I am not ready for the heat just yet. Sophie, on the hand is in her absolute element. From demanding to wear princess dresses to school everyday to running around the garden barefoot and covered in sand. Side note: if you are looking for a great outdoor play space to take your little ones, I can highly recommend the River Rascals play are at the River Club in Observatory. It is divine. 

CELEBRATING FAMILY
I am so addicted to scarymommy.com – like millions of other moms, the posts just resonate on every level. This particular post really stuck out for me. I read it twice. I can’t tell you how many photos I have skipped out on because I feel too fat or too ugly or underdressed. I don’t want my kids to look back on their childhood and feel a disconnect between the mom they knew and the mom that appeared in 3 or 4 pictures. I want to be able to sit on my couch when I am 80 years old with my photo albums bursting with memories, I want to be able to pour over pictures of Regan and I with our daughters. So I have turned into that lunatic at family events that takes pictures and demands to be photographed as well. This is so far out of my comfort zone, but I am embracing it.



ACCEPTING THE LIMITS OF MY CONTROL
Gosh, one of the most common things to come out of my mouth over the past few months has got to be my soliloquy about how flippen tough it is living with a 3 year old. I have learned that the only way to control my feelings is to accept the lack of control I have. Sophie is growing so fast and it is the very definition of bittersweet, her thoughts, her opinions, her moods, they all feel like part of another life, one where I have a much older child. At this tender age she is demanding to be seen as an independent human being and that is so hard. It’s hard because for goodness sake you are 3, I know I know better and please just be a baby for a tiny bit longer.


A FEW MORE HIGHLIGHTS:
Watching: Westworld (amazing, thought provoking, weird), American Horror (how great is this latest season? I am loving Cuba Gooding Jnr), The Walking Dead (OMG NEGAN!)
Listening to: Sophie. Non-stop. I swear I have the chattiest child on the block. From the time she opens her eyes until that last goodnight, there is a never-ending flow of gibber gabber coming out of her mouth.
Buying: Baby clothes, toddler clothes, early Christmas gift shopping.
Eating: Every kind of carb.
Looking forward to: CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!! Follow my ChristmasPinterest board and get jolly with me, crafting optional. 

Nikki Lincoln

Thanks for reading my little blog! I'm Nikki, writer, mom, passionate foodie and bookworm. In addition to my blog, I also craft creative and engaging content for various FMCG brands and a few events companies.

On my blog you'll find parenting tales, tips and advice, occasionally a recipe or two, products reviews and once in a while even a giveaway. If you'd like to say hi or find out more about working with me or my writing services please pop me a mail: nikki.lincoln@gmail.com

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